21.5.2026 Thursday -

 

20.5.2026 Wednesday - full of opportunities

We have an important meeting today, to meet a client for a hotel project, it will be in collaboration with a design firm. We propose some changes: some quite drastic, some practical for buildabilty and maintenance.

At the meeting, Dato says that the proposed omission of the basement car park is shocking. I ask him - in a good way or a bad way? though I know the answer. We have not built anything with them yet, although the feeling and feedback from our interactions have been fruitful. One of the directors say that we are 'good at getting the basics done well'.

On the way to the pool with Sean, I suggest some ideas for his talk, including taking 2 afternoons off to finish his presentation. It's important to feel prepared for the talk, this will be his first. His mother is very proud.

19.5.2026 Tuesday - a wish comes true

The day ends well, Sam joins me for a swim and she says that she enjoys it

Today starts with a target met; drawings of an initial idea is sent off for tomorrow's meeting. I remind myself myself not to fall in love with the idea, and not to worry about what will happen in the meeting. It is a bad habit, one which draws energy from me - I must work and think in the present. 

Keeping to that mindset, I speak to a young man about his work programme and tell him that I expect more from him. I want focus, he agrees to work on that. In return, I take one project from him so he has more time on his hands. I speak to him about his overlong lunch break; he returns home to eat with dad who cooks lunch for the both of them. This is a nice break which I am sure the father looks forward to, but sometimes the cooking is late and as a result the young man returns late to the office. I suggest that he gets dad to text him when lunch is almost ready, and then he leaves the office. A simple solution, like the chat itself is a simple solution to a problem which has been nagging at me for several weeks. 

Should have done it earlier.  

18.5.2026 Monday - new kitchen

 

Sam must have read my mind or my blog, because today she prepares dinner for us in HER new kitchen for us (with new chairs). Admittedly it would need several more rounds of dressing up before it gains the hominess we want, but for a start it is a nice place to eat together. The young people are chatty, talking about their work, and laughing out loud (I notice that the space is a bit echoey, the surfaces are too hard)

I also notice that my batteries run low rather quickly these past two nights, I think it must be because of the evening swims before dinner. I like this routine and will continue them, especially if Sam joins me to exercise. 

At work, the new girl starts on her first day at her first job. We have a chat about the probation; how it is also for her to assess us, about benefits; trips, seminars, etc, I sense her confidence and feel that she will ask if she has questions, and later she will comment if she has an opinion. Belinda is buying us breakfast in view of this little exchange; she paid us a compliment 'how well we interact with our min-ions'

17.5.2026 Sunday - I feel a little sad today

 

.. but I am not sure why. I feel better after my gym workout and a few laps at the pool. I need to exercise more frequently, I need to move. I even miss walking not to mention running and sports. 

The new kitchen is completed, in as far the building works is concerned. But Sam and I have a bad habit, we slow down and slack off when it comes to the final push, as a result the final outcome, the desired product sometimes take longer than the construction itself. 

16.5.2026 Saturday - pickleball and then nothing else

 

15.5.2026 Friday - Ruth Asawa

Watching a film clip about this designer who worked everyday, who was sidelined because of her race; interred during WW2, not allowed to teach but nonetheless succeeded in becoming an important artist in the States. 

 

4 of us have a good design discussion about the hotel project, the 2 women had put in a lot of thought and arrives at an interesting solution. My phone call at lunch time is not so productive and I start having some doubt about this young man, perhaps reacting out of concern that we might that over the lead, which is never our intention. 

Freddie helps Sean with his housing meeting, and having done my day's work, Sam picked me up earlier to get her old photo re framed before heading to our Mother's Day dinner. 

see all the faces of the young people, who decided to host a dinner for the mommies whose kids are away - how thoughtful...