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Monday, November 18, 2024
18.11.2024 Monday and my birthday
It is mostly work as usual though there is a breakthrough in the gardening front. I am getting the front planter re-instated and hopefully we can plant some herbs there. (reminder: it will need shade cloth). We have lunch with Irene, who thinks that the BES is a really good idea. It seems that she is doing a similar with her Spartan events, we share some ideas. Perhaps I will contact her when the BES things become more solid.
I parade my birthday cake around the office before cutting it. Unfortunately there are no good photos, but let's see maybe one will crop up later.
In the evening, we treat everyone to dinner including Thomas. Brian got stranded in Santubong, and rang Sean but dinner was already underway. These two new visitors to Kuching have had such a different experience, one met new folks, had lunch with them, walked the old streets, had a haircut and a massage and stories to tell. There is a lesson there.
Life is what you make of it.
Sunday, November 17, 2024
17.11.2024 Sunday - some people to strike off the list
I cycle to tennis - I enjoy both the bike ride and the tennis. Then to breakfast - nice laksa, similar discussions about child-care. I suggest a more rudimentary approach which is not fair as I do not know the full situation. I am quite tired by the time I bike home, but yet have enough energy to mentally plan our garden; making use of the composing prunings. I walked out to the garden and to my surprise, it is looking quite neat and work-able.
Thomas wants a hit of tennis and proved to be a very able player. Grumbly text at 3pm to say we can play squash at 3:30 pm and when I say I have tennis at 4pm - he signs off with a dismissive reply. Interestingly he is at the courts when we arrive, and judging from his greeting - he is not in a happy place. Right away - I decide that I will not spend time to text/communicate with him. Thinking back about how welcoming we have been, this is not worth our time. I will respond of course if he texts/calls me, but I won't waste my time texting him to have him respond a day later (after he has weighted his options)
16.11.2024 Saturday - even more things happening
If I were to write about Saturday's party, it would be a very long post. So maybe only the keys points: Sam and kids arranged for food and drinks and invited friends. Friends invited more friends, I have not seen the house this full. The Taiwanese artists were the guests stars, making themselves at home seating in a circle chatting and laughing. Other than Brian, there's another face from the the past. I greet her warmly and we will see what happens from now on.
Zayn, Richard, Lai are surprise guests as are Ivy, Amelia and their aunties - they had a good time with mom. I was hoping for one other to join us, but something has happened. I can only guess at the source of this, perhaps it is to do with the children, or what we are doing with the house, or is not fulfilling some part of our filial duty. Sad - as Pam puts it. Comparing too much, and being bitter when falling short - saying not nice things about people, things that should not be part of the conversation.
It's ok, the folks who came enjoyed themselves. And although we told them no presents, I have a new tee shirt, a tea set, a bag of mangoes and apples (from Khalid) and a table of wine and liqueur.
I did get some work done. |
15.11.2024 Friday - many things settled.
Wednesday, November 13, 2024
14.11.2024 Thursday - ceiling is the limit
13.11.2024 Wednesday - a bit of sun, felt better immediately
I start early as usual preparing the new idea for Satok, followed by the second project in Satok (Penghui and George are hard at it, and doing well - I am very pleased).
At 1030, Freddie and I get in a car to visit Andrew and his steel trusses, and to see which shade of red we like for them. Andrew talks a lot about his work; the paint, the mill finish, the sand blasting, and the lifting techniques, construction sequence, police escorts during the lifting...He talks a lot - but I don't mind, I am learning new stuff.
Seeing the actual steel sizes puts me at ease, and I like how he and Rianto is assembling the whole 19-m first lift together.It is Fiona's birthday - I bring her a flower from the garden (a ginger flower 'bunga kantan') and we all go for lunch at the Tandoori place. Over ate and did not exercise. Later in the evening, we have dinner with Eric, PH and Freddie - they get on and chat through the dinner. During which we heard some unpleasant news about Eric's co-curator which makes Sam quite angry.
Never mind, we are here to reset the balance. I get the brainwave to send PH to Taiwan to see TTY's installation project with CYCU.